My Self-Care is on Hold

Many Caregivers have trouble practicing self-care because they are focused on the care of their loved ones, frequently moving from one task to another without any rest. It’s overwhelming, though, to take care of yourself.

If you had a job, you would need to work with your employer and a healthcare provider to decide when to return to work. They need to assess your overall health condition and the risks associated with performing the job duties in your injured area. They might recommend finding alternative duties to reduce exposure to further injury. Suppose you have to continue performing job duties in the injured area. You may need extra precautions to prevent further injury, such as taking frequent breaks or wearing specialized protective gear.

I always had a weak ankle due to the years I played tennis. My diagnosis at 73 years of age was acquired adult flatfoot. I had finally torn the tendon that was so fragile. Taking care of both parents finally took a toll on my health.

The consequences of delaying my self-care and not getting the surgery now could include increased pain, swelling, and difficulty with activities of daily living. It could also cause more instability and risk of injury in the affected area. The doctor said I should get the surgery or wear braces for the rest of my life. YIKES. I can’t do it now my parents need me. The orthopedic doctor suggested braces. They are comfortable, and I can wear them with shoes (1 size larger than normal). I am wearing my ECCO boots which brace my ankles well enough. Never go barefoot was the strongest advice from the doctor.

Whoever advised, remember to take care of yourself,” was unaware of all I had to do.😔

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Chat For Caregivers is a lovely small caring group of chat friends. Please visit and meet the ‘gang’. Each of us is caring for a loved one(s) and started Chat For Caregivers after coming together and meeting in another caregiving chatroom that is no longer available. We are here to support you, listen and help you get through the rough times, advise, and discuss mundane things. We have experience, but we are just average family caregivers who have gone through almost every aspect of caregiving, including loss.

Our chat is safe and secure at no cost. We are caregivers and share daily in our discussions-cooking, the weather, relationships, work, etc. We offer group and private conversations. Join us for an uplifting chat.

Caregiving Challenges

Caregivers rarely find time for respite or to socialize with friends. Finding a safe place to communicate early in a caregiver’s experience can provide relief, guidance, companionship, and friendship. We are here daily, each morning and evening. Throughout the day, we offer private chats. We value our privacy and yours. Chat For Caregivers is secure and private. Vent, we often do.

Each of us is caring for a loved one(s). We are here to support you, listen and help you through rough times, advise, and chat about mundane things. We have experience, but we are just average family caregivers who have gone through almost every aspect of caregiving, including loss. 

Chat for Caregivers is Safe and Secure

Caregivers rarely find time for respite or to socialize with friends. Finding a safe place to communicate early in a caregiver’s experience can provide relief, guidance, companionship, and friendship. We are here daily, each morning and evening. Throughout the day, we offer private chats. We value our privacy and yours. Chat For Caregivers is secure.  

Caregiving has its challenges and rewards. The average duration of caring for an elderly family member is about four years. Millions of us in the United States need to get paid. Most of us are unprepared unless we have had experience in the health field. The challenges are many:

  1. There is the financial aspect. Unless you are wealthy, you will be looking for services and advice from senior services, doctors, caregiving blogs, and experienced caregivers.
  2. There are emotional challenges. Stress, depression, anxiety, and isolation, to name a few, are some we have experienced.
  3. Planning and organization in caring for someone can be overwhelming without the right tools.
  4. Caregiving can be physically demanding if the person you care for is disabled.

Caregiving can severely compromise your health if the caregiver does not practice self-care. We are available if you are overwhelmed and need to share or vent. Venting is a release valve for most of us.

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A Boring Moment

What bores you?

We tried to find a boring moment amidst the chaos of caregiving. Because let’s be honest, most days there’s no ‘off’ switch—just alarms, meds, spills, and someone asking ‘did you eat yet?’ So when that rare, quiet beat hits… we grab it. Like it’s gold. Maybe it’s five minutes of nothing. Maybe it’s staring out the window while the kettle boils. What do you do with yours?”

Sometimes solitude is one of the most beautiful things on earth.
No alarms. No ‘just one more thing.’
Just breathing. Maybe the sun hits the wall. Maybe you hear your own heartbeat.
And for five whole minutes—you’re not a caregiver. You’re just… here.

What does yours feel like?”

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Support is just a chat away

Feeling overwhelmed as a caregiver? You’re not alone. 

 Take a breath and connect with someone who truly understands—because your journey matters too. Visit chatforcaregivers.com and find support, encouragement, and a safe space to share. Together, we can make caregiving lighter 

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Smartphones

The most important invention in your lifetime is…

The smartphone. No contest—it’s shrunk the world, made everything instant. Maps, calls, cameras, all in your pocket.

Instant access to meds lists, appointment reminders, GPS when you’re lost on the way to a doctor’s office—plus video calls so the doctor can actually see what you’re dealing with.

As a long-distance caregiver, it was a lifeline in my pocket.

Life before? Kinda foggy. What’s yours?

Staying Connected

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