My Self-Care is on Hold

Many Caregivers have trouble practicing self-care because they are focused on the care of their loved ones, frequently moving from one task to another without any rest. It’s overwhelming, though, to take care of yourself.

If you had a job, you would need to work with your employer and a healthcare provider to decide when to return to work. They need to assess your overall health condition and the risks associated with performing the job duties in your injured area. They might recommend finding alternative duties to reduce exposure to further injury. Suppose you have to continue performing job duties in the injured area. You may need extra precautions to prevent further injury, such as taking frequent breaks or wearing specialized protective gear.

I always had a weak ankle due to the years I played tennis. My diagnosis at 73 years of age was acquired adult flatfoot. I had finally torn the tendon that was so fragile. Taking care of both parents finally took a toll on my health.

The consequences of delaying my self-care and not getting the surgery now could include increased pain, swelling, and difficulty with activities of daily living. It could also cause more instability and risk of injury in the affected area. The doctor said I should get the surgery or wear braces for the rest of my life. YIKES. I can’t do it now my parents need me. The orthopedic doctor suggested braces. They are comfortable, and I can wear them with shoes (1 size larger than normal). I am wearing my ECCO boots which brace my ankles well enough. Never go barefoot was the strongest advice from the doctor.

Whoever advised, remember to take care of yourself,” was unaware of all I had to do.๐Ÿ˜”

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Chat For Caregivers is a lovely small caring group of chat friends. Please visit and meet the ‘gang’. Each of us is caring for a loved one(s) and started Chat For Caregivers after coming together and meeting in another caregiving chatroom that is no longer available. We are here to support you, listen and help you get through the rough times, advise, and discuss mundane things. We have experience, but we are just average family caregivers who have gone through almost every aspect of caregiving, including loss.

Our chat is safe and secure at no cost. We are caregivers and share daily in our discussions-cooking, the weather, relationships, work, etc. We offer group and private conversations. Join us for an uplifting chat.

Caregiving Challenges

Caregivers rarely find time for respite or to socialize with friends. Finding a safe place to communicate early in a caregiver’s experience can provide relief, guidance, companionship, and friendship. We are here daily, each morning and evening. Throughout the day, we offer private chats. We value our privacy and yours. Chat For Caregivers is secure and private. Vent, we often do.

Each of us is caring for a loved one(s). We are here to support you, listen and help you through rough times, advise, and chat about mundane things. We have experience, but we are just average family caregivers who have gone through almost every aspect of caregiving, including loss. 

Chat for Caregivers is Safe and Secure

Caregivers rarely find time for respite or to socialize with friends. Finding a safe place to communicate early in a caregiver’s experience can provide relief, guidance, companionship, and friendship. We are here daily, each morning and evening. Throughout the day, we offer private chats. We value our privacy and yours. Chat For Caregivers is secure.  

Caregiving has its challenges and rewards. The average duration of caring for an elderly family member is about four years. Millions of us in the United States need to get paid. Most of us are unprepared unless we have had experience in the health field. The challenges are many:

  1. There is the financial aspect. Unless you are wealthy, you will be looking for services and advice from senior services, doctors, caregiving blogs, and experienced caregivers.
  2. There are emotional challenges. Stress, depression, anxiety, and isolation, to name a few, are some we have experienced.
  3. Planning and organization in caring for someone can be overwhelming without the right tools.
  4. Caregiving can be physically demanding if the person you care for is disabled.

Caregiving can severely compromise your health if the caregiver does not practice self-care. We are available if you are overwhelmed and need to share or vent. Venting is a release valve for most of us.

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Happy Thanksgiving Caregivers

November 2023 is National Family Caregivers Month, a time to recognize and honor family caregivers across the United States and Canada. The month-long campaign aims to raise awareness of caregiving issues, educate communities, and provide resources and support to help caregivers in their caregiving roles. The theme for this year is “Caregiving Around the Clock.” #caregivers #caregiversupport #caregivinggiving #CaregiverChallenges

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Join Our Daily Chat for Caregivers!

Are you a caregiver looking for support, advice, or a safe space to connect with others who understand your journey? Look no further! We invite you to join our daily chat room, where caregivers worldwide come together to share their experiences and lend a listening ear.

Details:

  • When: Daily, twice a day
  • Time: 9pm EST / 9am PST
  • Duration: 1 hour

Whether you’re a caregiver, a family member, or a friend providing support, our chat room welcomes everyone. We believe that coming together can create a supportive community and find solace in knowing we’re not alone.

To join our chat room, click on the following link: Chat For Caregivers

We can’t wait to meet you and help you navigate the caregiving journey!

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When you dedicate yourself to self-care, joining a chatroom can help with isolation, support, and friendships. Consider including us in your self-care routine. Have a wonderful day, and we look forward to meeting you wherever you are in our chatforcaregivers.com.

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Caregiving, Free Time, and Coffee Breaks

Caregiving-Free Time and Coffee Breaks are difficult most days. But when you have some downtime, know that someone is available in our scheduled chats, Facebook group, and Messenger. We are a family of caregivers who met on chat. Some have met others in person while traveling and purposefully stopped to meet.

How do you spend your time when you get free time from your caregiving duties?

Caregiving requires your full attention. Caring for both parents became more difficult after Dad fractured his hip when he fell. Taking care of Mom and helping her change clothes after breakfast took my eyes off Dad. That’s when I had to have help. I went to the hospital to see Dad, and someone took care of Mom. Free time was not on my schedule after that. Caregiving is a full-time job and with two parents it is overtime.

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When I have some free time from my caregiving duties, I enjoy chatting with other caregivers while my parents watch a movie, napping, or having breakfast. It allows me to ask questions, share stories, vent, and have meaningful conversations about caregiving. Chat started at 7:00 a.m., and I was able to have breakfast set at that time for Mom and Dad. I would sit at the counter and was nearby if they needed anything while I was on the computer. It was my only way to socialize while caregiving.

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If you know that our chat is open at certain times of the day, maybe you can also start managing the day to have time for yourself. This is part of self-care, and managing your emotional health is essential. Caring for someone is easier if you are healthy and feeling good.

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Thanksgiving and Caregiving

๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿฆƒ Embrace the Joy of Thanksgiving as a Caregiver! ๐Ÿฆƒ๐Ÿ‚

Thanksgiving and Caregiving

Being a caregiver can be incredibly demanding, and this Thanksgiving, wouldn’t it be genuinely remarkable to relinquish the responsibilities of meal preparation and entertainment? Imagine, for a moment, the joy of sitting back, allowing others to take the reins, and dedicating your precious time and energy to the people you hold dear.

Feeling overwhelmed, dear caregivers? As Thanksgiving approaches, let’s find solace in this opportunity โ€“ a chance to come together with loved ones and cultivate meaningful connections while embracing the support surrounding us.

Let this day celebrate togetherness, love, and gratitude โ€“ a moment to shift the focus from the daily caregiving duties and cherish the blessings surrounding you. This Thanksgiving, gift yourself the opportunity to fully immerse in the joy of being present with your family while others lend a helping hand.

It’s essential to remember that you deserve this break โ€“ a chance to recharge and rejuvenate your spirit. Trust that those around you will step up and contribute, allowing you the precious moments you need to create lasting memories with your loved ones. Mutual understanding and support can make this Thanksgiving truly exceptional for everyone involved.

So, dear caregivers, release any guilt you may carry and open up to the possibility of receiving support and assistance this season. Allow yourself to fully embrace the true essence of Thanksgiving โ€“ a time to bond, appreciate one another and find solace in the love surrounding you.

Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Together, we can navigate the challenges, find joy in the little moments, and create lasting memories that will warm our hearts for years.

From our caregiving community to you, may this Thanksgiving be filled with love, gratitude, and a well-deserved opportunity to cherish the beautiful connections that make life truly meaningful.

๐ŸŒŸ Happy Thanksgiving, dear caregivers! ๐ŸŒŸ

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Wishing you a day with joys as bright as colored leaves…the kind that brings a harvest of Thanksgiving memories. #CaregiversThanksgiving #CultivatingConnections #BountifulBlessings #CherishTheMoments Chatforcaregivers.com. Chat Room for Caregivers

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Chat For Caregivers Follow this Blog

Welcome to Chat For Caregivers. Chat For #Caregivers is a place to learn more, give emotional support, and share experiences. We want to provide a connection between caregivers who can help each other along their journey.ย We know that being a caregiver is an incredibly challenging and rewarding journey. We also offer a chat room where we meet twice a day to support each other.ย Our chats are scheduled during the day, and you may connect to one of our scheduled chats at 6am/6pm PST (9am/9pm) EST.ย ย We have daily one-hour chats.ย  Connect with other caregivers. ย Stop by anytime.

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Additionally, these times are available on Chatforcaregivers.com

  • 9 a.m. ET (8 a.m. CT,  7 a.m. MT, 6 a.m. PT);
  • 2 p.m. ET (1 p.m. CT, Noon MT, 11 a.m PT);
  • 9 p.m. ET (8 p.m. CT, 7 p.m. MT, 6 p.m. PT).

We would love to meet you. Until then, know you are not alone. Join the Chat For Caregivers community and connect with fellow caregivers who understand the joys and challenges of caring for loved ones. Share stories, get advice, and support one another on this incredible journey. Together, we can make a difference!ย ๐Ÿ’™ย #CaregivingCommunity #SupportAndConnect #caregivers #caregiving

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Why the Culture Wins: An Appreciation of Iain M. Banks – Sci Phi Journal

Why the Culture Wins: An Appreciation of Iain M. Banks – Sci Phi Journal
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“The Power of Connection: Family Caregivers Building a Strong Caregiver Community”

Introduction:
Family caregivers often face unique challenges and experiences that sometimes feel overwhelming. However, one of the most significant sources of support and strength we can find is within our caregiver community. At chatforcaregivers.com, we believe in the power of connection and its transformative impact on our lives. Join us as we explore the benefits of building a solid caregiver community and how it can positively impact our well-being.

  1. Share Personal Stories:
    We invite you to share your caregiving stories with us and our community! Whether it’s a heartwarming moment, advice, or even a challenging experience, your story can inspire, validate, and empower others going through a similar journey. Let’s create a safe and supportive space to uplift each other.
  2. Expert Advice and Resources:
    Discover a wealth of advice from caregivers and resources on our website. From practical tips on managing caregiver stress to guidance on navigating the healthcare system, our goal is to equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to thrive in your caregiving role. Stay updated with our blog articles, educational videos, and downloadable resources – all designed to support you on your journey.
  3. Engage in Meaningful Discussions:
    Our caregiver community is a platform for meaningful discussions. Join our chatrooms or participate in our forums to connect with others who understand the triumphs and challenges of caregiving. Engage in conversations, ask questions, seek guidance, and share your insights. By actively participating, we can learn from one another and foster a sense of camaraderie.
  4. Virtual Events and Workshops:
    Stay tuned for upcoming virtual events and workshops designed specifically for caregivers. These interactive sessions will offer opportunities to learn from industry experts, connect with fellow caregivers, and develop new skills and strategies. From virtual support groups to educational webinars, we strive to provide valuable experiences that promote personal growth and well-being.

Conclusion:
At chatforcaregivers.com, we believe that no caregiver should walk alone. Together, we have the power to uplift, support, and empower one another on this caregiving journey. Join our caregiver community today and experience the transformative power of connection. Remember, you are never alone!

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“The Power of Connection: Building a Strong Caregiver Community.”

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Chatroom for Caregivers

Supporting Caregivers

Chatforcaregivers.com has been up and running since June 2022! We started that chatroom because the site where we initially met was sold, and the chat was dropped. Now, #caregivers have a chat for emotional support, resources, and friendship and share stories. The benefits of building a solid caregiver community and how it can positively impact our well-being are critical to our commitment.

Introduction:

As caregivers, we often face unique challenges and experiences that sometimes feel overwhelming. However, one of the most significant sources of support and strength we can find is within our caregiver community. At chatforcaregivers.com, we believe in the power of connection and its transformative impact on our lives. Join us as we explore the benefits of building a solid caregiver community and how it can positively impact our well-being.

1. Share Personal Stories:

We invite you to share your caregiving stories with us and our chatroom community! Whether it’s a heartwarming moment, advice, or even a challenging experience, your account can inspire, validate, and empower others going through a similar journey. Let’s create a safe and supportive space to uplift each other.

2. Expert Advice and Resources:

Discover a wealth of personal advice and resources on our website. We have posted resources from experience and research. From practical tips on managing caregiver stress to guidance on navigating the healthcare system, our goal is to equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to thrive in your caregiving role. Many sites are available for support, and we have visited, monitored, or joined most of them. We are here for you if you need a listening ear with interaction. Stay updated with our blog articles, educational videos, and downloadable resources – all designed to support you on your journey based on our experiences.

 Engage in Meaningful Discussions:

Our caregiver community is a platform for meaningful discussions. Join our chatroom whenever you have time to connect with others who understand the triumphs and challenges of caregiving. Engage in conversations, ask questions, seek guidance, and share insights. Our moderators are standing by. By actively participating, we can learn from one another and foster a sense of camaraderie.

Conclusion:

At chatforcaregivers.com, we believe that no caregiver should walk alone. Together, we have the power to uplift, support, and empower one another on this caregiving journey. Join our caregiver community today and experience the transformative power of connection. Remember, you are never alone!

Remember, you are never alone on your caregiving journey. We understand the unique challenges and joys that come with being a caregiver. By connecting with other caregivers, you can find comfort, support, and valuable insights that can make all the difference. Join our caregiver community today and experience the strength of connecting with others who truly understand what you’re going through. Together, we can navigate this journey with resilience, compassion, and the power of connection.

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Caregivers Remain Calm

Caregivers Remain Calm and resume caring recharged. What a day! The dishwasher was delivered but can’t be installed because the shutoff valve is corroded. I had to call the plumber, who arrived an hour later. In the meantime, I took my glasses to the optometrist because I slept with them on. They were a little bent out of shape, and so was I. The plumber arrived a few minutes before I drove into the garage. $400 later, the shutoff valve is fixed, and the dishwasher can only be installed once I call someone to do it. I’m smiling anyway. Can’t fret! It doesn’t improve matters, but I can improve my outlook. I hope everyone’s day was off to a better start.

My husband greeted the plumber and left to do some errands. He didn’t want to be around while the plumber worked. He wouldn’t have been in his way, but it was better this way. He could be calm by staying away, although his calm energy would have helped me. And it turns out it did when he returned.

While caring for my parents in another state, I traveled twice a month to be with Tex, my husband, as everyone calls him. I allowed our two dogs to snuggle with me. I had a little respite for one day before I flew out the next. Long-distance caregivers hardly have the time to care for two households, especially caring for someone so far away from home.

I came home and hardly had the time to work on the house. I hired someone to clean, but I couldn’t hire someone to fix the leaky faucets or the water softener when it went out. Therefore, fixing needed to happen, but I could never do it immediately. Scheduling far in advance, I tried to keep the appointments. My parents needed me, and each time I left, someone replaced me. My brother, for starters, but then I hired someone to care for Mom while I cared for Dad.

Caregivers Remain Calm for the Person You Care For

So much is involved in caregiving. Our emotions get the better of us, depression can set in, or our motivation to care for ourselves (self-care) is put aside. I was at my wit’s end until I found a chatroom where I could share my ups, downs, celebrations, and concerns. We all go through this and need someone to talk to who understands.

We are here for you and to support you in a chatroom daily at Chatforcaregivers.com. We are on chat every morning at Noon-2:00pm EST and 9:00-10:00pm EST. You don’t have to stay the entire time, but try to set some time for yourself to meet new friends who support your actions. We get it!

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